Geordie Lass & Doc Sass

Anna forgets that moving countries is not an easy affair. Just like having babies and other life-changing events, she has forgotten about past experiences. The girls had a sliding doors moment both 'Lasses' were almost in Budapest at the same time.
One day they will be in the same place, at the same time and record an in-person podcast. 
 
Love Desk: Tinder now allows friends and families to recommend matches for you ... is this a step too far? Time will tell, the girls have some reservations. 
 
Hot Topic: Keeping sex alive in a long-term relationship. 
Anna's trying to switch to a different hot topic but Sara is keeping her honest and on track (not an easy job ...)
The shift from sex to no sex is like a train that speeds past the station without realising it has happened. In long-term relationships, it's a hot topic indeed, as we get distracted by life and often move out of the habit of regular sex which is difficult to reverse and even trickier to discuss with our significant others. 
 
Question: "My girlfriend and I have different values and beliefs. Is it possible to still have a good relationship without compromising who we are and giving up on our values?"
Yes, maybe, maybe not ..... values are difficult to gauge when considering the future impact. Some values may feel like a non-negotiable, for example, the decision to have children, but others may move and shift over time. You might start to see your partner's perspective more and your values may become more aligned over time. 
 
Great chat as ever, Sara's feeling calm and confident about her trip to Budapest. She's element ready with a new winter coat and Anna's giving her top tips on the local spirits. Let's hope she makes it back for the next recording. 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Anna's started paddling in Athens, so far she's not attracted the emergency or law enforcement officers but she had had men offering to carry her board. We are saying nothing! Sara's been enjoying pick and mix at the cinema and her love affair with food. 
 
Love Desk: It's a food-related love desk .... tune in to find out what and why. 
 
Hot Topic: How does spitefulness show up in your relationship?
Ouch, are you ready for this? There are more ways than you think to be spiteful in your relationship, they might not be obvious to start with but listen further to see if you are being unconsciously spiteful. 
 
Question: "My partner and I seem to disagree on everything lately. How can we work through conflicts and disagreements in a healthy way, and prevent them from causing bigger problems down the road?"
The thing you think you're arguing about is never the thing. It's harder often to get below the daily arguments and bickering to uncover what's happening. 
 
Raising even more awareness this week, lots to explore and work on for all of us. 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 
 

External forces are trying to interfere with the podcast, this will give Anna a run for her money when it comes to editing. Sara is waving lyrical about her new kitchen gadget, we will never get her out of the kitchen. 
 
Love Desk: Dating across the salary divide! One influencer has caused a stir by stating she will not date below her salary. 
 
Hot Topic: How would guaranteed success in your relationship impact what you do?
Would this have a positive or negative impact on your relationship? Would it ease the doubt or would you slack off and not put the effort in you need to? 
 
Question: "I've been feeling really insecure in my relationship lately. How can I identify and address my own insecurities, and what can I do to improve my relationship as a result?"
 
Anna is fired up and ready to go after today's pod recording. Sara's off to reset and Anna is entertaining visitors from Canada. Will they get her firey side and will Google Translate let her down .....
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 
 

Sara's been to the hairdresser and is exercising her date night right to take her hair out. Anna's been globe-totting off to Rome and enjoying Chianti and house wine! New lessons in life this week. 
 
Love Desk: Mercury and Retrograde are causing a shadow across relationships right now, listen in to get some tips on what to do to avoid this disruption. The storm won't last forever, you can always make it sunny even when it's raining!
 
Hot Topic: Common causes of low confidence in relationships
Confidence can show up in many ways. It may be your different levels of confidence or the confidence you feel in the future of your relationship together. Tough love won't cut it here. It's to start caring about your relationship and your partner.  
 
 
Question: "I've been with my partner for a while now, but I'm starting to feel like the spark is gone. What should I do if I feel like I'm losing interest in my partner, and how can I reignite that passion in our relationship?"
 
So common, that your relationship will not sustain the highs of the honeymoon. It simply isn't possible. It's time to put some new goggles on are see your partner in a new light. We are overstimulated in society and this is causing us all to become disconnected, from ourselves and our partners. It is possible to take steps to start to lean back into your love again. 
 
Good conversation from the girls today. Sara's dumbfounded that they still haven't met, and that Anna is now in a hairs whisper from Sara. That in-person pod recording is closer than you think!
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

The girls are reconnecting again, as Sara has just landed back from a holiday and sunshine in Mexico. Anna's taken a one-way flight to Greece as she starts a new adventure. 
 
Love Desk: Relationships with siblings, should you be close to your brothers and sisters. 
 
Hot Topic: Breaking the negative cycle and creating new patterns
Are you living by an old story, how true is the narrative that's spinning around your head? First, you need to take a step back and view your life as a movie, what would stand out most for you? 
 
Question: "I'm struggling with intimacy in my relationship. What are some ways to build trust and improve intimacy, and how can I start implementing those strategies in my own relationship?"
 
Is this something that is impacting your relationship, take a listen as the girls explore this topic. 
 
The girls are almost in the same timezone, it will soon be time for Podcast with wine!
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Anna has been out on the water and halfway up a mast making new friends. The girls are now comparing their fear of heights. It highlights a different definition of fun for sure! 
 
Love Desk: 9 lessons as a teenager you have to learn about love. Oh my is it too late for these lessons ...... the girls say it's never too late! 
 
Hot Topic: The beauty of imperfections
Do you accept your partner fully? Do you see the beauty of the things that weren't on your wish list? 
 
We all change over time, whether it's health changes or general weathering over are you prepared to accept the tur sickness and health vows or your true commitment to your relationship? 
 
Question: "I just got caught having an affair, how do I save my marriage? Divorce hasn't been mentioned yet."
 
A Short question but there is more to this than the few words presented here. This listener made a choice and now is the time to work out the next steps to fully recover if this is your favoured option. The girls have some great advice, they aren't holding back today!
 
Sara is off on a last-minute trip to Mexico just as Anna is striping back, her apartment that is, she is getting ready for her new life in Athens. 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Anna is feeling Zen-like and tipping off the edge all at the same time. 
 
Love Desk: Impact of Sex on your health, you are so gonna want to hear this. Maybe then you'll be ready to get your jiggy one. 
 
Hot Topic: Where has all the fun gone
Have you hit a disillusionment phase or lost the art of fun with your significant other? This one is for you. Life is a mix of the daily grind, responsibilites but, it also needs fun to make it work and flow. 
 
It's important to understand your version of fun and do more of it. It's your unique connection point. 
 
Question: "I've been in a long-term relationship for almost 13 years. I've been waiting for a proposal for over a decade. We have three kids and they ask why are you and Dad married. I'm in my thirties and all our friends are married, whenever I mention it he doesn't seem interested at all. It doesn't sit right with me that we aren't married. Should I give up hope?"
 
Sara's protesting about whose choice this is, marriage is a big deal!! This is quickly followed by a good debate on marriage when is the right time and whether it is always a forgone conclusion. 
 
A great session, as ever, with the girls this week. 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Spring and fall had a baby in Jersey and the summer still hasn't made an appearance. Anna's been back on the board and now she's feeling the pain. 
 
Love Desk: Age and being introverted - Is there a connection? Tune in to find out what's popping at the love desk today. 
 
Hot Topic: Redefine your happy ever after. 
The girls debate this topic with some slightly different views but one thing they do agree upon is relationships take work but they should be a place where you feel safe and become your space of happiness. 
has Anna found her happy ever after?
 
Question: "I'm at the end of my tether, my wife is not submissive and she continues to disobey me. What should be my next move?"
 
A tough one this week, lots of work to do to explore this for the listener. 
 
lots to consider this week as you shape your life and your relationship future.  
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com

Sara is a vision in pink according to Anna which has cheered her up as she is feeling tired and under the weather. Anna's back from travels in Greece for one last stay in Toronto. She's fully focused on getting down to zero, something Sara could only dream of. 
 
Love Desk: Today as the girls record, it is national orgasm day and as such Sara is sharing some fun facts from a survey by match, It's time to tune in and take a listen. There are some interesting points in today's love desk, the girls are shocked! There is a moral shared!
 
Hot Topic: What have I done to make you like this?
The girls are excited about this topic and it's a great follow-up to the previous podcast. If this controversial issue can help you change your perspective on your relationship, how will it affect your opinions and the level of responsibility you assume? 
To stay in the neutral zone it's important to stay curious and ask more questions as you explore situations and conversations with your partner. Avoid being defensive and beware not to use your tongue as a weapon. 
 
 
Question: "Me and my future wife have a bedroom dilemma, we are both in our 20's she has a strange obsession with my sticky-out belly button. She likes to tickle and lick it. I'm quite self-conscious about it, what would you suggest?"
You might not resonate at first, but keep listening you might be falling fowl to this and not be aware. Do you fixate on your partner and continue to do something they do not like? Or are you unsure about having certain conversations in your relationship? 
 
Another great episode from Geordie Lass & Docc Sass!
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Anna touches on the soar subject as she shares her heatwave stories with Sara facing autumnal conditions. Just at the point that Sara's sorted her summer wardrobe, perhaps that's why the weather has turned. 
 
Love Desk: Dive into our latest research findings on what behaviours bond happy couples. This sparks a lively debate between the girls. Anna's views are strong and unwavering, making for an engaging exchange of perspectives.
 
Hot Topic: What was the thing, before the thing?
Ever wondered about "the thing before the thing"? It's not just the symptoms that matter; understanding the root cause of both negative and positive situations with your partner can lead to deeper connections. Explore the fascinating world of underlying issues and challenges that shape relationships.
 
Question: "Would you date someone who called their mom every night at 7.45?"
This week's question is a gem! Join us as we delve into the impact of this seemingly simple behaviour and share personal anecdotes that shed light on its significance.
 
While the popular temperature choice for Jersey is 18 degrees, Anna's determined to bring a bit of European warmth to Sara. As she enjoys life in Athens, will her hot girl dress match the sizzling climate? Stay tuned for her exciting trip updates and a newfound appreciation for Love Desk research.
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com