Geordie Lass & Doc Sass

Welcome to the Podcast!!
The girls keep things real in this episode, Anna is sharing a very real experience, about money, relationships and being triggered by all. Spring is on the horizon and Sara is feeling loved up so she's banking on this for when the reserves are a little lower. 
 
Love Desk: Sharing new concepts you may have not heard of before, today this is 'weaponized responsibility'. This could be a hot topic in its way as the girls delve deep into the ramifications of miscommunication and misaligned priorities leading to potential challenges and breakdowns, particularly within household responsibilities. Does anyone resonate with the road trip playlist scenarios? 
 
Hot Topic: Celebrating the differences between us
A great hot topic that follows on from the love desk. From exploring deeply embedded belief systems and values to the simple way we handle tasks and day-to-day requirements. The differences between us can lead to some seismic gaps between us. 
 
There is often a baseline level of compatibility, but this doesn't override the fact that there are differences between us, as demonstrated by the Gottman Institute research 60 to 70% of things between you will never be resolved. 
 
If you can work on the principle there is no right or wrong, only difference, it's all to be celebrated. 
 
Question: "My partner and I have been fighting for well over two years, we have one child together and I have three stepchildren, we've been married for 6 years and more recently it feels like it's us against them. I'm tired of all the arguing, help!" 
 
A question that creates more questions for our Relationship Coaches, they are curious about how this started, when it started and what may have triggered the disharmony. What are the dynamics in this relationship that are triggering a negative in this relationship? The cycle can be difficult to identify and break. This listener sounds like they feel isolated in this relationship which is a red flag. You should also feel safe in your own home.
 
Often the blended family is the assumed source of disharmony but this might not be the case. You have no idea if you would come up against the same challenges had you stayed in your prior relationship with the maternal parent. 
 
The girls finish this relationship workout on a high. 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com

Welcome to the Podcast!!!
Our hosts are delighted to record today and looking for to chatting all things love. 
 
Love Desk: If you're a female you will be delighted with this news, unless you are Anna, take a listen to find out why this is triggering her bothers today. 
 
Hot Topic: Is the digital world moving us closer to arranged marriages?
What will the future of dating look like? The girls discuss key insights on the re-shaping of the dating world, the challenges of maintaining a genuine connection amidst digital noise, and the roller coaster ride of online dating. From creating an authentic online dating profile to navigating virtual distractions. 
 
Question: "My partner and I come from very different financial backgrounds, we are due to get married in 18 months and I think we should have a prenup, my partner says that in the eyes of god, we need to unite as one and that once we marry we should pool or resources for the good of our family unit, I can see their point but just don't know what to do for the best?"  
 
The impact of finances on relationship dynamics. From discussions around pre-nuptial agreements to the essence of open money discussions in relationships, the episode offers pragmatic advice for those battling financial decisions in their love life.
With an emphasis on crucial factors like finances, desires, and family planning within relationships, this episode is abundant in practical wisdom. It stresses the importance of talking about money before marriage, managing shared resources, and eliminating unhealthy assumptions. Furthermore, it brings about the perfect balance between financial independence and co-dependency in relationships.
 
An enlightening episode with a real zest as the hosts discuss the simple joys of life and small personal victories. It's not just an eye-opening episode about the logistics of love; it's a hearty conversation about life, joy, and happiness. The girls are winning at life, and Sara is still evangelical about her Thermomix. 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Sara is a shining light on the podcast today and embracing her blanket. Anna's being a domestic goddess, cooking up a storm. They are feeling blessed and privileged. 
 
Love Desk: The love desk is causing a stir today, tune in to listen and find out what the girls are chatting about and if they agree with the desk of love ....
 
Hot Topic: Me, You & Us
The complicated business of who we are as people when we are in a relationship, as the girls discuss, interdependence and levels of connectedness in a relationship. 
 
Question: "My partner is dying, they don't have long left to live and they have this crazy idea that I should hook up with their best friend. I can't even think about being with anyone other than my gorgeous partner but they are really pushing hard for this." 
 
It's an emotional end to the podcast this week as the girls discuss a difficult situation for one listener. 
 
Another great episode of relationship fixing. 
 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Anna's back in town and her feline friend couldn't be happier. Meanwhile, Sara's feeling a little vocally neglected, so it's time to fix that as she starts the discussion about the fascinating (and often confusing) differences between US and UK healthcare for new parents. Yep, this is still a relationship podcast, families matter!
 
Love Desk: Sara dives into a quote, but Anna's got a raised eyebrow. Can Sara convince her love guru pal to see things differently? Tune in to see if Anna changes her tune!
 
Hot Topic: Core Pillars of Love
Anna's got her 3 C's and commitment, but choosing the most important one is proving tricky. Plus, new ideas are brewing! Can the girls establish a set of essential "core pillars" for love? Join the debate as they delve deeper.
 
Anna unveils a surprising new love interest: a spreadsheet! Yes, you read that right. Is love truly conquerable by Excel? Find out how Anna is incorporating this unconventional tool into her relationship.
 
Question: "My partner is going through a tough time, and I want to support them. They are very independent and it can be hard to know what to do, at times it's like I don't exist but I want to do the best I can." 
 
A listener seeks advice on supporting their independent partner during a tough time. Striking the right balance between interdependence and respect can be tricky. The girls offer a fresh perspective on this relatable issue.
Today's podcast takes a detour (or two!), this time it isn't Anna leading the charge. But hey, isn't that part of the fun? Join the ride and see where the conversation takes you!
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com

Sara is feeling uber chilled today, with cool vibes around here and she no longer smells like an old people's home. Sara's back on dry January and the girls are embracing 2024. 
 
Love Desk: Orange peel theory ..... have you heard of it .... us neither, until now. This is going against Anna's independent soul. Do you have a winner or a binner in your relationship, tune in and listen to find out more 
 
Hot Topic: New Year relationship review, it's the new year and you are in the rosy glow of hope. Anna's resisting being a Debbie downer and Sara's embracing small changes. There's no five-point plan here, it's your relationship and your review. Take some inspiration from the girls and where they are focusing their attention. 
 
Question: "My bestie started seeing someone a while ago, recently everytime we've met up she brings him alone, it doesn't matter if it's just us or a group she can't seem to come out without him tagging alone. What do I do?"
 
Sara is excited today, and the girls are springing into 2024!
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Anna's echoing from her empty apartment, she's excited to be there, feeling chilly but she's warm on the inside. Sara's recovering from illness with some Xmas shopping and prep for the festive period. 
 
Love Desk: Christmas-related story, some sadness but evidence that humankind and generosity are around us. 
 
Hot Topic: What would you change about a modern relationship?
Words of wisdom from Anna, choose your own adventure, in a modern relationship you have this in your gift. 
 
The overriding message is to co-create your relationship, it's your path and you get to design a relationship that works for you. Sometimes this level of choice may feel overwhelming, when this arises it's time to get intentional. 
 
Question: "I want to stay with my partner forever, how can I make this happen?"
 
The girls can't tell if they feel better or worse at the end of this podcast, but that's the rhythm of relationships and life. There were still a few mic drop moments in here which hopefully make you think a little and get more intentional. 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Sara's just back from Budapest fully fed and still with her man, they survived without an argument. How grown up are they! Anna's moving and it's all up in the air as usual. 
 
Love Desk: Wedding vows and AI, is this the future or is it a step too far?
 
Hot Topic: Judge, Jury & Executor
Is this you in your relationship? Tune in to see how this might be showing up in your relationship and what to do if you recognise it. 
 
 
Question: "I'm struggling to balance my relationship with my work and personal life. I feel like whatever I do it's never good enough in both areas. What are some tips for maintaining a healthy work-life balance while still prioritizing my relationship?"
 
Some great ideas on how to tackle this and master the art of self-reflection, action and boundaries. 
 
The girls are celebrating the dark days are over, and owning up to their shit. They are always here to support you!
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Anna forgets that moving countries is not an easy affair. Just like having babies and other life-changing events, she has forgotten about past experiences. The girls had a sliding doors moment both 'Lasses' were almost in Budapest at the same time.
One day they will be in the same place, at the same time and record an in-person podcast. 
 
Love Desk: Tinder now allows friends and families to recommend matches for you ... is this a step too far? Time will tell, the girls have some reservations. 
 
Hot Topic: Keeping sex alive in a long-term relationship. 
Anna's trying to switch to a different hot topic but Sara is keeping her honest and on track (not an easy job ...)
The shift from sex to no sex is like a train that speeds past the station without realising it has happened. In long-term relationships, it's a hot topic indeed, as we get distracted by life and often move out of the habit of regular sex which is difficult to reverse and even trickier to discuss with our significant others. 
 
Question: "My girlfriend and I have different values and beliefs. Is it possible to still have a good relationship without compromising who we are and giving up on our values?"
Yes, maybe, maybe not ..... values are difficult to gauge when considering the future impact. Some values may feel like a non-negotiable, for example, the decision to have children, but others may move and shift over time. You might start to see your partner's perspective more and your values may become more aligned over time. 
 
Great chat as ever, Sara's feeling calm and confident about her trip to Budapest. She's element ready with a new winter coat and Anna's giving her top tips on the local spirits. Let's hope she makes it back for the next recording. 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 

Anna's started paddling in Athens, so far she's not attracted the emergency or law enforcement officers but she had had men offering to carry her board. We are saying nothing! Sara's been enjoying pick and mix at the cinema and her love affair with food. 
 
Love Desk: It's a food-related love desk .... tune in to find out what and why. 
 
Hot Topic: How does spitefulness show up in your relationship?
Ouch, are you ready for this? There are more ways than you think to be spiteful in your relationship, they might not be obvious to start with but listen further to see if you are being unconsciously spiteful. 
 
Question: "My partner and I seem to disagree on everything lately. How can we work through conflicts and disagreements in a healthy way, and prevent them from causing bigger problems down the road?"
The thing you think you're arguing about is never the thing. It's harder often to get below the daily arguments and bickering to uncover what's happening. 
 
Raising even more awareness this week, lots to explore and work on for all of us. 
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com
 
 

External forces are trying to interfere with the podcast, this will give Anna a run for her money when it comes to editing. Sara is waving lyrical about her new kitchen gadget, we will never get her out of the kitchen. 
 
Love Desk: Dating across the salary divide! One influencer has caused a stir by stating she will not date below her salary. 
 
Hot Topic: How would guaranteed success in your relationship impact what you do?
Would this have a positive or negative impact on your relationship? Would it ease the doubt or would you slack off and not put the effort in you need to? 
 
Question: "I've been feeling really insecure in my relationship lately. How can I identify and address my own insecurities, and what can I do to improve my relationship as a result?"
 
Anna is fired up and ready to go after today's pod recording. Sara's off to reset and Anna is entertaining visitors from Canada. Will they get her firey side and will Google Translate let her down .....
 
Till next time!
 
Get in touch
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions. All questions are fully confidential. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email: info@inflori.co.uk
Website: www.inflori.co.uk
Relationship Reset: www.inflori.co.uk/reset
 
Anna Stratis
Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 
Website: www.coachdocanna.com