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May 27, 2021  

43. Menopause and the effect on your relationship

Welcome to the Podcast!!!
 
Anna is feeling awesome after a road trip, paddle ad ice cream, what more is there to life. Sara has been rocking out to CDs from years gone by wondering why she bought them in the first place. The devastation of CDs out of the cases scattered across the floor! CD dance parties all the way.
 
The love desk is sharing what a male escort get's up to and his five rules in the bedroom. Let's find out more ..........
 
The hot topic this week is menopause and the effect on your relationship. Menopause has been highly publicised recently, the girls tackle this topic with relationships in mind, how can a partner support their partner during this potentially challenging time. Sara has been burying her head in the sand but it's time she faced up to it, she is of an age! It's a good job we have a doctor in the house.
 
The book mentioned - Men… Let’s Talk Menopause: What’s going on and what you can do about it by Ruth Devlin
 
And finally, the question is ...... "My partner asked if we can bring sex toys into our relationship. I'm freaking out. What to do?" can't wait to tune into this one .... listening with an open mind and ready to explore and have some fun.
 
It's been a powerful episode this week, gigolos, menopause and sex toys, what more could you ask for. Frisky episode!
 
Till next time ......
 
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Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
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Sara Liddle
 
Anna Stratis
May 20, 2021  

42. Not using your children as pawns in your divorce

Welcome to the Podcast!!!
 
Sara is feeling zingy today but Anna thinks she's feeling singing ..... it must be a language barrier. Sara is wishing she had a magical fairy's to do the cleaning but instead deploys a new tactic. Anna got into some sticky water while paddling in the wind ....... before she knew it a police cruiser is heading her way with a helicopter in tow to save her. Thankfully she was safe and is here to record the podcast this week. It sounds eventful! Sara was braving the beach and wild winds, looked beautiful with the sand blowing along but less pleasant to walk in.
 
The love desk has a study about male attire and their level of commitment to relationships. Let's find out more ..........
 
The hot topic this week is how not to use children as pawns in your divorce. It is an emotional time and can be difficult to navigate, don't be tough on yourself but start to explore what's happening and why. There are some strong feelings and emotions that play out when it comes to divorce.
 
And finally, the question is ...... "My husband is always borrowing money from me and never paying it back, help!" there is more to this than meets the eye. The paper cuts in life are important.
 
Anna is sharing her wisdom with the world but the reality might be a little different, Sara is evident that being a relationship coach does shine a light on your own relationship, fixing yourself isn't always that easy though.
 
Final thoughts from the girls on boundaries and how to deliver a no may some soften the message when it's your partner and wrap some fluffy cosy socks around it ...... the girls didn't quite reach combat .... over and out, Sara pulls the plug first. 
 
Till next time ......
 
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Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
 
Sara Liddle
 
Anna Stratis
May 13, 2021  

41. Coping with your partner changing

Welcome to the Podcast!!!
 
Summer is popping in NY and the New Yorkers are getting naked (well almost). Sara was out for dinner and flashing her white legs without shame. COVID is still rumbling in the background with more devastating news. The girlsls are ready to get back to some naughty behaviour instead of isolating and being a generally good public citizen.
 
Speaking of naughty the love desk is all about naughty this week with 15 signs your partner is having an affair according to a therapist. If you spot any signs don't blame the girls they are only reporting a story. If this is you the advice is to get down and get deep. They are feisty this week.
 
The hot topic is coping with your partner changing (but perhaps it's not an affair), we are not fossils people! Anna's got a vaccine hangover and Sara's got a real hangover but they are on fire. Sara's got the better end of the deal.
 
And finally, the question ..... "Is it okay for my partner to follow other women on social media?" rewind and listen to the hot topic again for the answer .... there are some similarities! Don't fear it .... be empowered and be a badass instead.
 
The girls wrap it up on a positive vibe, step out of your comfort zone and let the fun roll. As usual, the girls forget people are listening and chat rubbish at the end of the podcast but they are dedicated and still entertaining the nation!
 
Till next time ......
 
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Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
 
Sara Liddle
 
Anna Stratis
May 6, 2021  

40. How to tell if your relationship is in trouble

Anna starts off fruity for the start of the month, it’s wild and windy and the birds are still awaiting summer. Quick public service announcement, don't forget the sunscreen and tan safely, h and maybe no outdoor sex ....
 
The love is popping, with so much news but one had to chosen ..... it’s a good one today, tune in to find out where the love desk settled.
 
This week the hot topic is how to tell if your relationship is in trouble. Don’t get caught off guard, learn how to notice the signs in your relationship, Using the energy influencers as a guide. Understand how to piece together the parts of the puzzle as things aren’t happening in isolation and recognise what the warning light means.
 
The question this week is “why does my ex still want to have sex with me?” yep I'm sure many of us have been there, the girls enjoyed discussing this one!
 
Here are the links mentioned
 
They started fruited and ended fruited this week.
 
Till next time ......
 
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
 
Sara Liddle
 
Anna Stratis
April 29, 2021  

39. Top 3 reasons boundaries fail

Sara’s detox isn’t going so well after a fun weekend of scrummy food. Anna is disturbing the canoodling ducks whilst she was taking a rest from paddle boarding. The question is where they really have an affair ......
 
The relationship news desk shares an interesting article about friendships as we come out of lockdown, it’s is freedom but not as we know it. It is good to know where friends are at to be able to support them in this. 
 
Finally, bring on The hot topic top 3 reasons why boundaries fail. It’s a hot one and something the girls know features heavily in people lives, whether they understand boundaries or not, this episode should help. 
 
This week the question is "My parents don’t want me to marry my intended, should I do it anyway?" this could go either way, tune to find out more.
 
The girls really did take on the world today! There was a lot to learn, very informative and as entertaining as ever.  The sun is shining and the girls are of taking advantage of it. They are desperate for summer but the wind is not letting them just yet. The wardrobe conundrum is real!! It’s the weird stage where no one knows what to wear right now. 
 
Till next time ......
 
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Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
 
Sara Liddle
 
Anna Stratis
April 22, 2021  

38.Conncting with your partner during a crisis

Anna's pulled an all-nighter and nope not for dancing but for taxes!  Oh yes, it's that time of year again when tax returns are due and Anna's been up all night crunching the numbers, Let's hope she doesn't nod off during the episode!
 
The relationship news shares with you different cuddle syles for sleeping and what they might mean in your relationship, Anna's going to test one out and report back. Sara's confessing to doing a varied number of them all in the space of 5 minutes. Tune in to find out what they are.
 
This week the hot topic is connecting with your partner during a crisis, it is a tough one and many of us are experiencing this or have been during the last 14 months, the girls share a few things to think about when this hits your relationship.
 
The question this week is "I love my partner but we don't share common activities. Does this mean we won't last?" find out what else could be at play here.
 
That's it for another week of the podcast, Anna's off to sleep and is armed with homework to report back on.
 
Till next week!
April 15, 2021  

37. Should you have rules in your relationship

Anna has made it back safe and sound to NY, she's treated enough chlamydia in Canada.
 
She had some company on the way back and was listening to Untamed by Glennon Doyle and this has reminded her to be herself and live life for herself.
 
Sara has finished an indulgent week off and needs to detox and slim down. She has definitely been herself and lived for herself!
 
Despite indulging Sara was still on the love desk and shares funny (but not to be recommended) tweets from couples getting their own back on their partner when they were mad. Funny but maybe try some other methods.
 
The hot topic discusses whether you should have rules in your relationship. What do you think? Tune in for thoughts from the girls. 
 
This week the question is "How to turn an argument into a constructive conversation", it is easier said than done, the girls share their thoughts on how to achieve this. The best quote is show me how to fight better!
 
 
Till next time!
 
 
Get in touch with us!
Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential
 
Sara Liddle
 
Anna Stratis
 
April 8, 2021  

36. Narcissism in a relationship

Summer nudity is kicking off as spring marches on, but the question is when to get those lily whites legs out? Doc Anna reminds us to wear SPF. Sara is ready to start a holiday week and is going to eat her way through it! Anna is ready to head back to NY to be reunited with her man. 

 

The relationship desk is reporting on a new programme in the UK where people are looking to co-parent together, this is a thing! There are apps with over 70k people registered. Take a listen to find out more, or check the programme out for yourself on Channel 4 if you are in the UK #strangersmakingbabies 

 

The 'chilly' hot top this week is a biggie, narcissism in a relationship. Not a fun topic but it is essential, the calculus of the maths class. It is a mental health disorder and the girls run through the behaviour you'd expect to see, it's interesting listening. Do you recognise anyone like this? 

 

Here is a YouTube clip by Dr Ramani an expert on narcissism, to help further on the topic. 

 

This week's question ..... "My partner doesn't find me attractive anymore and I'm devasted." the girls no this feeling only too well and have some sound words to help you find your own love and beauty and ways to validate who you are and keep sparkling. You Go Girl!!

 

Mama Sara wishes Anna safe travels back to NY and insists on a message so she knows she's back, you're never too old for someone to take care of you. 

 

Till next time .............

 

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Geordie Lass & Doc Sass
Email:      info@geordielass.com
 
Tell us your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential, we will never share your details. 
 
Sara Liddle
Email:      info@inflori.co.uk
 
Anna Stratis
Email:       coachdocanna@gmail.com 

 

April 1, 2021  

35. Conflict styles in relationship: Do you know yours?

Sara is feeling frisky this week, Spring is her and she’s been out for afternoon tea! Bring on Summer…. Anna has been out paddle boarding and saw a beautiful sunset whilst battling the choppy water. She has topped up her soul.

 

The love desk is reporting a COVID related story, baby boom or baby bust, take a listen to find out which.

Hot Topic alert …… Conflict Styles …. Do you know yours? Have a listen and see if you recognise your style and learn more about where to be aiming for. Remember you can’t be a hero every day, forgive yourself and try to say sorry every now and again. Sara admits to going through the whole of her marriage never saying sorry, whoopsie …… the girls still haven’t got it all figured out but they are trying.

 

This week the questions is a tricky number “My wife is six months pregnant but I think she’s cheated on me, what should I do?” It’s a tough one!

 

Links mentioned in the show

Feeling wheel link - http://feelingswheel.com/

 

Get in touch with us!

Geordie Lass & Doc Sass

Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential

 

Sara Liddle

Email: info@inflori.co.uk

Website: www.inflori.co.uk

 

Anna Stratis

Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 

Website: www.coachdocanna.com

March 25, 2021  

34. Getting out of a date you don’t like

Anna has an expectation face as the podcast starts, she is going a little crazy whilst in Toronto away from her dude. Sara loves her start to the week with the podcast recording and she is full of love and gratitude for the listeners and Anna her co-host. They both know how challenging life can be and they can help lift things a little and share some tools that may be of use. Anna is grateful too.

 

Jersey is going well, they've not f'd it up yet and people are now allowed in homes, small gatherings are now allowed, hurray! Gyms are open, time to work off the COVID bulge. 

 

Anna has been hiking out to Lake Ontario and enjoyed a coffee in an actual coffee shop. This is a major highlight. 

 

The love desk is torn between two stories ...... but decided on the 3 x 3 rule. Who knows where this will go? Tune in to find out what this is. 

 

The hot top this week is  ......... How to get out of a date that you don't like. 

 

Question of the week!!  "Why do men walk out when they are having a night out but women do bath time, prepare dinner for the kids and get them ready for bed?" Drop mic moment with the first response. 

 

The girls are fully warmed up after that! Still no peeing in the pool and keep it together just a little longer the end is in sight!

 

Get in touch with us!

Geordie Lass & Doc Sass

Email - info@geordielass.com with your relationship hot topics or questions, this is fully confidential

 

Sara Liddle

Email: info@inflori.co.uk

Website: www.inflori.co.uk

 

Anna Stratis

Email: coachdocanna@gmail.com 

Website: www.coachdocanna.com

 

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